Thankfulness

For the month of November I thought I would keep a list of things God has blessed me with and I'm thankful for in a cute little notebook. Besides things I'm thankful for, I also wrote some Bible verses that deal with thankfulness, praise and things God is teaching me in my life.  So today, since I'm bored out of my gourd, I thought I'd post all of them on here with some pictures from this month.  I will post them by each day of the month that I wrote. Some days, I only listed one thing, other days I filled up the whole page.  I pray that as you read through these you will think of all your blessings and thank God for them. Oh! Happy Thanksgiving!!

• I'm thankful for college so I can have an education.
• I'm thankful for friends who love and support me.

•   I'm thankful for the BCM
•  I'm thankful we can worship without persecution.

•  I'm thankful my mom chose life.
•  I'm thankful for the many women who have taught me and supported me. 
• I'm thankful for God's perfect holy word and forgiveness.

Psalm 32:1

"How blessed is he whose transgressions are forgiven, whose sin is covered!"

• I'm thankful for the strength and courage God gives.
• I'm thankful for church leaders who love and care for their members.
• I'm thankful for the sweet children who attend the school I tutor at and how they are excited to see me and tell me their stories with such excitement.
• I'm thankful for the fall leaves and how beautiful it looks as you drive down the highway.

• I'm thankful for God's peace.
• I'm thankful for my mom and how I can tell her everything.
• I'm thankful for God's word.

Psalm 40:1-3

"I waited patiently for the Lord; and He inclined to me and heard my cry. He brought me up out of the pit of destruction, out of the miry clay, and He set my feet upon a rock making my footsteps firm. He put a new song in my mouth, a song of praise to our God; many will see and fear and trust in the Lord."

• I'm thankful for our pastor.
• I'm thankful for David (my step dad). I don't know what I would do without him.
• I'm thankful for my sister and how we are becoming friends instead of sisters.



• I'm thankful for my little brother and what a blessing he is to me.

• I'm thankful I was able to be sick at home instead of the dorm.
• I'm thankful for cool pens that make writing fun.
• I'm thankful for Netflix so I have something to do while I'm sick.
• I'm thankful for Hal and KP who have checked on me to make sure I was OK.

Psalm 65:4

"How blessed is the one whom You choose and bring near to You to dwell in your courts. We will be satisfied with the goodness of Your house, Your holy temple."

• I'm thankful for my little brother who holds my hand at night.
• I'm thankful for books.
• I'm thankful for my mommy.
• I'm thankful that God is sovereign and in control of all things.

• I'm thankful once again for Hal &KP.
• I'm thankful for my awesome Henna tattoo that helps me share the Gospel.

• I'm thankful for my rain boots.
• I'm thankful for how God knows what is best for my life.
• I'm thankful for Bake.
• I'm thankful for sleeping in, even though it means I miss a class.
• I'm thankful I can "study" with Mary Grace.
• I'm thankful for the smell of coffee.
• I'm thankful for getting out of class early.
• I'm thankful for God's amazing grace and strength.

My birthday cake

Psalm 66:16 and 20

"Come and hear, all who fear God, and I will tell of what he has done for my soul."

"Blessed be God, who has not turned away my prayer nor His lovingkindness from me."

• I'm thankful for God's hope and peace He gives me.
• I'm thankful I'm redeemed through God's grace.
• I'm thankful God gives second chances and doesn't kill us right when we sin.
• I'm thankful for the good day I had tutoring.
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Psalm 67:1

"God be gracious to us and bless us, and cause His face to shine upon us."

• I'm thankful for Heaven and Jesus' return. How glorious it will be!
• I'm thankful for Granny and how wonderful she was.
• I'm thankful for all the things God has taught me this past year.
• I'm thankful for my super comfy bed.
• I'm thankful for razors so it's not "No-Shave November" all the time. ;)
• I'm thankful for my new huge desk.

• I'm thankful for another year.
• I'm thankful for God's super natural courage he gives to me.
• I'm thankful for answered prayers.
• I'm thankful for my wonderful church family.
• I'm thankful for my many friends that love me.
• I'm thankful for the youth minister and his wife and how much they have invested and impacted my life.
• I'm thankful for prayer.
• I'm thankful for dancing and laughter.
• I'm thankful for all the adorable things my little brother says.



• I'm thankful for David and how he loves me.
• I'm thankful that he helped me with math today.
• I'm thankful friendships can happen even if it's not the way you want it to be.
• I'm thankful that there are only two days of school this week.
• I'm thankful that I have so much to be thankful for!

Psalm 92:1

"It is good to give thanks to the Lord and to sing praises to Your name, O Lord High."

• I'm thankful that I have friends in my art class so I don't loose my mind.
• I'm super thankful that I was able to get the classes I wanted for next semester on the days and times I wanted. That was truly from God.
• I'm thankful for rain boots, umbrellas and my U of M sweatshirt, especially when they're together.
• I'm thankful for International Students.
• I'm thankful for the Gospel and how it changes peoples lives.
• I'm thankful for breaks from school.
• I'm thankful for rest, showers and beds.
• I'm thankful for my sock monkey footy pajamas.



Psalm 118:24

"This is the day which the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it."

• I'm thankful for the faces around the dinner table today.



Thank you Lord for everything You have done for me.

It Is Not Death To Die

     As most of you know, a year ago today my grandma (Granny) passed away after a seven month battle with Pancreatic cancer.  Cancer is something that I wouldn't even wish on my worst enemy. It is a horrible sickness that is absolutely devastating.  However, I don't want this post to be about how much I hate cancer(even though I do), but I want it to be about how wonderful my Granny was and what God has taught me through this. 

     I don't think people understand just how close I was to my Granny.  I saw her EVERYDAY of my life until we moved to Memphis about six years ago.  Almost every memory I have as a child involves my Granny.  Granny and I were just alike, I even am today.  I get my feelings hurt over petty things that don't matter.  I like to shop. I like the color pink.  It takes me forever to tell a story because I like to tell all the little details that don't matter.  My mom says that all these things skipped a generation and went straight from Granny to me. I believe it. 



     Granny loved all five of her grandchildren and would do ANYTHING and EVERYTHING for them.  This would include buying us clothes and toys and fudge rounds.  She taught the boys how to drive.  She took care of us when we were sick.  But the thing that showed she loved us the most was how when one of us was having a hard time she would pray for us.  She often didn't know what to say so she would just say, "Lord help em, help em Lord."  She would tell us all the time while patting (more like beating) us on the arm, "I love you so good!!" There was never any doubt in my mind that she loved me.

Granny loved to sing.  She taught us to sing Amazing Grace, probably her favorite song.  I can't sing it today without tearing up and sometimes sobbing like a baby.  It wasn't until recently that I realized just how much that song means to me personally.  After she passed away, we found some old tapes that she had made.  One of them was me and her singing Amazing Grace when I was about four.  That song will forever be ingrained in my heart because of her. 

     My Granny was an outstanding woman.  I could write a whole book about her and all the memories I have of her. But I want to talk about her battle.  She was diagnosed with Pancreatic cancer on April 1.  Not once did she ever verbally ask God why.  She constantly said, "I will praise God in the good times and the bad times." She listened to the song Blessed Be Your Name. (Listen here )

She was at peace the entire time.  She understood that God was in control.  She also loved the song  You Never Let Go. Grab your tissues. She clung to God during this difficult time.  Even when things started to go down hill she still trusted Him, probably more than we did. 

     During this time, I was somewhat angry with God.  I was being selfish and self centered.  I was thinking,"This is my senior year and I'm missing out on all the fun things." One perfect example of this was one night our youth group was having a formal night out.  I was really looking forward to going, but we ended up staying with my grandparents instead.  I was really bummed and upset. I moped around the house all day.  That afternoon she called me into her room so I went wondering what she wanted.  She just wanted me to lay in the bed with her and hold her hand. So I did.  We laid there for about an hour just holding hands. I realized how selfish I was being and I understood that this was one of the last time I would ever do this with her again. Oh what I would do to be able to just hold her hand one more time! This just goes to show how much of a sinner I am.  My grandma was battling cancer and loosing and I was thinking about the stupid formal night out I was missing! My heart aches when I think about my selfishness. 

    On November 18, 2010, two days before my 18th birthday, Granny passed away.  I was there and as morbid and horrible as death is, it was one of the most beautiful moments. She took her last breath on earth and her first breath in Heaven.  We mourned and grieved that she was no longer with us but rejoiced at the same time that she was not longer in pain.  I can honestly say, my heart has never hurt that much in my entire life and I hope it never does again. 

    Once she passed away, those next few hours were torture to me.  Just thinking about them  makes me sob with violent tears.  Watching the funeral people take her out of the house is forever marked in my memory.  I would love to forget that memory. 

     Two days later, on my 18th birthday, was her funeral and burial.  I struggled that day.  I just kept thinking about how she should be with us celebrating my birthday.  Needless to say, that day was not a great birthday.  My heart hurts as I type this since I'm reliving it. 

     However, through all of this God has taught me amazing things.  Before Granny became really sick, I was questioning God. Not many people know this.  I kept asking God, "If you're real show yourself to me!" Boy did he ever and not the way that I expected.  God has taught me that He is God and most importantly, He is in charge of ALL things. He knows what He's doing. Through my grandmother's life I see how He worked to teach me many things.  I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that God loves me and has saved me from the wretched person I am.  It was nothing that I did, but all Christ and his amazing grace.  I now understand why Amazing Grace was so important to Granny.  It told her story. If you have made it this far, I would like for you to take a minute to actually listen to the song.  And I mean REALLY listen to it. Listen to the words of the song.  Amazing Grace Have you been saved by God's amazing grace?

     Another important lesson this has taught me is that Heaven is all the more sweeter.  Before this, I was kind of scared of Heaven.  Now because I have a better understanding of God and I have someone waiting their for me, I'm super pumped about Heaven.  I'm not sure if this is biblical, but I like to think about her waiting for me and when I get there she'll  grab my hand and say, "Come see Jesus!!!" and we'll take off running together down the streets of gold  and right up to God and Jesus on the throne. Then we'll fall on our faces together and worship God in the perfect way.  Super excited!!

     Shortly after she passed away I stumbled across this song.  It is Not Death to Die. This pretty much sums up my thoughts.  As we approach Thanksgiving this year, I have so much to be thankful for.  One of those is my grandma and how Jesus has concurred death,  and to know she is with Him. 

     If you read all of this, thank you. I have tried to be as honest as possible. I have even mentioned some things that even my parents don't know about.  I know I rambled alot, but I have alot on my mind.  But as I said in the beginning, I wouldn't wish cancer on anyone. However, I do wish God's overhwelming peace that I know on everyone.  It is so amazing, I can't even describe it.  God is so holy and wonderful.  I could go on for days, but I'll leave you with this.

1 John 3:1

"Behold what manner of love the Father has bestowed on us, that we should be called children of God!"